Released: 2021
Olivia Rodrigo’s “happier” is a bittersweet ballad about the complex emotions that follow a breakup. The song captures the internal conflict of wanting an ex to be happy, but not happier than they were with you. It’s a relatable anthem for anyone who’s ever struggled with letting go.
The song kicks off with the revelation that the breakup happened a month ago, and the ex has already moved on to someone new. Olivia’s character is dealing with the fact that their mutual friends are aware of this new relationship, and she can’t help but compare herself to the new girl. The new girl seems to bring out the best in her ex, which makes Olivia question if she’s been forgotten.
In the chorus, Olivia admits to her selfish desires. She wants her ex to be happy, but not as happy as he was with her. This is a raw and honest admission of the jealousy and insecurity that can linger after a relationship ends. The line “find someone great, but don’t find no one better” is a perfect example of how she wishes well but with conditions.
The second verse dives deeper into Olivia’s feelings of inadequacy. She recalls how her ex used to call her the most beautiful girl, and now she wonders if he’s saying the same things to the new girl. Olivia is “pickin’ her apart,” trying to find flaws in the new girl to make herself feel better, even though she knows it’s not right. The new girl is described as beautiful and kind, and Olivia acknowledges that she probably gives her ex “butterflies.”
The bridge and final chorus reiterate Olivia’s conflicted emotions. She wishes her ex well, but she can’t help but hope that he doesn’t love the new girl as much as he loved her. The repetition of “I hope you’re happy, but don’t be happier” underscores the struggle between wanting to move on and still holding onto the past.
Overall, “happier” is a poignant exploration of post-breakup emotions. Olivia Rodrigo captures the rawness of heartbreak with her honest lyrics and emotional delivery, making it a standout track for anyone who’s ever felt the sting of seeing an ex move on.
