Released: 2022
Sabrina Carpenter’s “because i liked a boy” dives into the chaos and backlash that comes from a seemingly innocent romance. The song paints a picture of how quickly public perception can turn toxic, especially when love and social media collide. It’s a raw and candid reflection on the consequences of simply liking someone in the public eye.
The opening lines set a lighthearted scene with Thin Mints and a boombox, capturing the excitement of young love. However, the tone shifts as Sabrina describes how something as simple as cuddling on trampolines turns “reckless.” This recklessness isn’t about their actions but the aftermath of public judgment. Bonding over Black Eyed Peas and exes seems innocent, yet it spirals into chaos.
The chorus is a powerful statement of how she’s labeled a “home wrecker” and a “slut,” with “death threats filling up semi-trucks.” These extreme reactions highlight the harsh reality of being a public figure. The line “Tell me who I am, guess I don’t have a choice” underscores the loss of control over her own narrative, all “because I liked a boy.”
In the next verse, Sabrina addresses the internet’s role in amplifying the drama. She insists it’s “not internet illusions,” just “two kids going through it.” This highlights the disconnect between reality and online perception. The lyric “You said I’m too late to be your first love, but I’ll always be your favorite” adds a bittersweet touch, showing the personal side of the story amidst the chaos.
The repetition of being a “hot topic” and a “rebound” emphasizes how quickly people jump to conclusions. The song circles back to the innocence of their relationship, reminding listeners that “dating boys with exes” is fraught with complications. The closing lines question the worth of all the drama, especially since “we’d already broken up.” It’s a poignant reminder of how fleeting and intense public scrutiny can be, all because of liking a boy.