Released: 2013
Lorde’s ‘Ribs’ is a nostalgic and introspective track that captures the bittersweet essence of growing up. The song delves into the fears and anxieties of leaving childhood behind while yearning for the simplicity and innocence of youth. It beautifully juxtaposes the carefree moments of adolescence with the daunting realization of adulthood.
The song opens with the imagery of a spilled drink and a song on repeat, setting a scene of youthful carelessness and repetition. ‘Lover’s Spit’ is a reference to a song by Broken Social Scene, symbolizing the soundtrack of a moment that feels both intimate and routine. The mention of parents letting her stay home highlights a rare freedom, yet it’s tinged with the realization that this freedom comes with the passage of time.
The repeated line ‘It drives you crazy getting old’ underscores the central theme of the song. It’s a raw admission of the fear and discomfort that comes with aging, a sentiment that resonates with anyone on the brink of adulthood. The dreamlike quality of the song shifts as it acknowledges the loneliness and uncertainty of this transition.
As the song progresses, Lorde expresses a longing for the past, wishing to reclaim the ‘minds we had.’ This reflects a desire to return to a time when thoughts were less burdened by the complexities of adult life. The repetition of ‘I want ’em back’ is a powerful yearning for the simplicity and clarity of youth.
The chorus brings a sense of camaraderie and shared innocence, ‘sharing beds like little kids’ and ‘laughing ’til our ribs get tough.’ It’s a vivid portrayal of friendship and the comfort found in those bonds. However, the repeated line ‘but that will never be enough’ reveals an underlying dissatisfaction, suggesting that these moments, while cherished, cannot fully satisfy the deeper longing for the past.
